There are many differences when it comes to living in the north vs living in the south. here are just a few i picked up on when living in the south after growing up in the north. Side note:Northerners please don't kill me we all know its true.
Shopping cart vs buggy
here in the north we call the Rollie medal thing in the store a shopping cart or cart for short. plus there almost aways broken or freezing because our weather hates us. In the south they call them buggys and were not talking about the creepy crawlers outside. they are almost always in good shape because there weather loves them. (what did we do to deserve this northerners)
Hand shake vs Hug
the custom of greeting people differs also. in the north you shake hands on a rare occasion when you know some one really well and haven't seen them in a while you give them a hug but this is rarely seen. of course you have the older grandma that hugs everyone and makes them feel acquired (Just so you know I love you for that and keep doing it we all need it). In the south hand shakes are still a thing but having a stranger hug you is not as uncommon as you would think.
ignoring other human beings even exist vs waving and smiling at everyone you meet.
when I first went down south and strangers were talking to me I kinda freaked out like this is not normal but the longer I stayed the more it grew on me. having a smiling face everywhere i go and having people acknowledge i existed was nice. unfortunately I cant say the same for the north for the most part you will have a few people who will be like that and i am truly thankful for them. But a majority of the time if you wave at someone you don't know they may just look at you like your a chicken with its head cut off.
Winter vs Summer
North = nice summers and falls and hell froze over winters and cold rain springs. sometimes we wonder if the sun died because we never see it except in the summer ans some of fall.
South = great springs and falls, hell on earth summers and nice winters exempt for the occasional ice storm about every other year or so. there is almost never snow and that just depends on who you are if that is a positive or negative, i find it to be a positive though.
Driving
Just so you know but north and south drivers, drive me crazy when it comes to cars on the road. in the north as long as you are going 5 over you wont get ran over to bad. In the south you never know when someone is going to be turning because they never use there turn signals. (northerners i know we all think we have a problem with this but trust me we don't) while we are on the topic of driving let talk driving in inclement weather. we in the north got this southerners I'm sorry but you just would never make it up here.
I know there is so much more we could talk about but ill leave it there for now. I hope you enjoyed reading this blog. If you have any blog ideas that you would like to hear or any things you would add to this one please feel free to comment. also if this is your first time here check out my other blogs.
Thursday, October 22, 2015
Wednesday, August 20, 2014
5 ways to survive church as a single
1) Smile and wave
Sometimes you just have to smile and wave, especially when
people ask or make stupid comments such as. (for everyone else take a hint
write these down and don't ask or say them)
-so when are you getting married?
-you know that guy/girl is really awesome you should marry
them?
-you need to do this (insert some stupid thing to make the
person “better” or “fixing” them for marriage) because you know we can’t get
married till we are perfect.
-just enjoy your single years you’ll miss them when you get married
-what about (insert name here)? Have you thought of asking her out yet?
-so you and (insert name) what’s going on there? You like
him/her?
-so do you think (insert name here) likes you?
-it will all happen in Gods timing.
These are all things that makes us all just want to punch
brick walls so please stop. And for the singles don’t punch a brick wall it’s
just not comfortable just smile and wave.
2) Stay strong
I know
there are days where you just can’t take it anymore whether it be people need to leave me alone or ill go
crazy, or its get married or die. The point is we are not meant to do this alone
we all need friends and we also need God more than anything else. Psalms 27:8 “The
LORD is my strength and my shield; my heart trusts in him, and he helps me. My
heart leaps for joy, and with my song I praise him.” But most of all let’s not act like kids who
just Got there Halloween Candy taken away. (although we feel like it sometimes)
3) Be involved
What
better way to get your mind off of everything around you then to get involved
with something and start serving others. Whether it be helping in the homeless
ministry, men’s/women’s ministry, youth ministry or even the children’s
ministry. Plus there are so many other ways you can serve and God commands us
to love one another as we love ourselves. But if you do get involved in a
church here are something’s not to do.
4) Be peasant
As much
as we all hate hearing it “it will all happen in Gods timing” that statement is
very true. Nothing happens till Gods says it will. I’m not in any way saying
its going to be easy, or even that you won’t worry or be upset in fact you will
worry and you will be very upset many times its all a part of life and without
that we would not need God. What im saying is there will be many temptations to
go your own way and do your own thing because to you it seems that God is ether
not working in your life or he has forgotten you, both are not true at all, and will lead you to places you don't want to be. We need
to choose to be peasant even when it is impossible.
5) Love God
This is
just something that every person should do not just singles. Without God we wouldn’t
even know what love is. 1 John 4:19 “We love because he first loved us.” If we can’t
find satisfaction in the love of Christ who is perfect how then will we find satisfaction
in the love of a man or women who is flawed.
Sunday, July 27, 2014
Lies the church believe about children
Before I go in to the lies the
church believe I want to clarify that this is not every church, but a majority of
the churches. I have talked to many different people from many different churches, and I have also been in children’s ministry for about 9-10 years now. I don’t claim
to be an expert, but I am just sharing my experience.
Children's Ministry Isn't Important
Some may say that children's
ministry isn't important because they're just children after all. And you’re just
an adult after all. This reminds me of a saying from Horton Hears a Who by
Dr.Suess. “A person's a person no matter how small.” God sees us all the same, as
his creation, that he loves with an everlasting love (Jeremiah 31:3). It doesn't
matter if you are as good as mother Teresa, as bad as Hitler, as young as the
newborn, or as old as the oldest person you know, he loves us all the same with
a love we can't understand. So to say that one of God's creations are not
important really is not a good argument.
Children are innocent in the eyes of God
Children are innocent in the eyes
of God. Any parent should be able to tell you otherwise. Romans 3:23 applies
to everyone (for ALL have sinned and fall short of the glory of God). The punishment
for sin is separation from God forever. It seems like a terrible thing to say
that our children are separated from God because of their sin, but to say otherwise would be a lie. All the more reason to teach our children from a young age
about the savior, Jesus Christ, who can save them from their sin.
Children don’t or can’t understand salvation
Continuing with the last one, some
say they don’t or can’t understand salvation or other concepts about the bible.
Matthew 18:1-5 “At that time the disciples came to Jesus, saying, “Who is the
greatest in the kingdom of heaven?” And calling to him a child, he put him in
the midst of them and said, 'Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become
like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever humbles
himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. Whoever
receives one such child in my name receives me.” Jesus himself said that it is a
child who can best understand. Children are much smarter than people give them
credit for. Children are sponges-they take in everything. All the good things, and bad things. It's also said in Proverbs 22:6 “Train up a child in the way he
should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.”
Children don’t play a part in the
church. Every person in the church plays a part. Sure they can't run a program, but they can sure help sometimes. They are some of the best helpers. 1 Corinthians
12:14-20 14 “For the body does not consist of one member but of many. If the
foot should say, 'Because I am not a hand, I do not belong to the body,' that
would not make it any less a part of the body. And if the ear should say, 'Because I am not an eye, I do not belong to the body,' that would not make it any
less a part of the body. If the whole body were an eye, where would be the
sense of hearing? If the whole body were an ear, where would be the sense of
smell? But as it is, God arranged the members in the body, each one of them, as
he chose. If all were a single member, where would the body be? As it is, there
are many parts, yet one body.” Yes, children
do have their own spiritual gifts that can benefit the church, if only they
have someone to help them understand and give them opportunities to use their
gifts.
Children’s problems aren't as big as our adult problems.
Children’s problems aren't as big
as our adult problems. The person who said this does not know what some of our
children have to go through. “50% of all North-American children will witness
the divorce of their parents. Almost half of them will also see the breakup of
a parent's second marriage.” http://www.children-and-divorce.com/children-divorce-statistics.html
. Here is some more information for those who still think that children don’t
go through a lot these days.
http://www.childstats.gov/americaschildren/glance.asp.
http://www.childstats.gov/americaschildren/glance.asp.
We can wait until the children are older to teach them so they can really understand
This one goes along with the one
that says they cannot understand salvation. Some say we can wait until they are
older to teach them so they can really understand. Romans 10:14 “How then will
they call on him in whom they have not believed? And how are they to believe in
him of whom they have never heard? And how are they to hear without someone
preaching?” How can they understand if we don’t tell them and we already know
they can understand because Jesus said so in Matthew 18. Also, if we wait we may
lose them. More than half of those who accept Jesus as their lord and savior
will do so before the age of 12. Less than 6% of people will accept Christ after
the age of 12. It is vitally important that we teach them at a young age.
Children’s ministry is just Games, stories, crafts, and snacks
Last but not least, some say Children’s
ministry is just Games, stories, crafts, and snacks. Children’s ministry is so
much more than that. You are forming children in to who they are going to be
and how they will respond to the world around them. You may be teaching a
future president, pastor, teacher, cop, mother, doctor, garbage man, secretary,
and so on. Each with the possibility of changing lives. All you have to do is
say I am willing to treat these children like real people and love them for who
they are. You don’t have to work every week, you don’t even have to teach. Children's
ministry needs people to sign children in. People who can sit with the kids. People to
provide snacks people, to help with crafts and games, and so on. You can be a
part of changing our world one child at a time.
Saturday, July 5, 2014
10 ways life is just like a video game
10 ways video games and life are the same.
1) RPG- (Role Playing Game) Life is essentially a role playing
game, where you play the role of yourself. Pretty simple, or so you may think.
2) XP-(experience points) I know for you non gamers this one
is a bit hard to understand. Yes, it is XP not EP. Sound it out. Basically every
time you learn something new you get experience points and the more you get the
better you are, and sometimes you even level up.
3) Ratings- also like aging up. depending on the age you
are, that will determine what games you might play. (Personally I do not suggest any
of the mature or adult only games, but that’s me)
EC-(Early childhood) before elementary
school
E-(everyone) Elementary school
E10+-
(ten and up) middle school
T-(teens)
High school
M and
AO-(mature/Adult only) College and up
4) Boss- (The bad Guy at the end of the game that is nearly impossible
to beat) - these are things that we think are impossible or bullies in your
life. I also call them your own personal Goliath.
5)Bug- (Glitch in the game that makes it not work correctly)
we all have Glitches in our lives. It could be something not turning out the
way you wanted it to. We also all have our own personal glitches, but that’s what
make us all unique.
6)Cheat code –(a code you can enter in to the game that gets
you something that you didn't have to work for) This is my favorite part of the
game Sims. Your sim would never have to work to get money. In life cheat codes are
easier ways to do something or get something at a cheaper cost. You can find a lot of cheat codes on Pinterest.
7) Character- (the character in a Game) you talk to other
characters in life. Not much else to go on for that one, it’s too simple.
8) Memory card – (a card to store you game information on) Your
brain is your memory card, so take good care of it
9) Lag- (when the game runs slowly) When you are being lazy
or when you’re sick, you lag.
10) Game over- (when the character runs out of lives) This
one is the saddest. This is when you die L
it's game over buddy.
Thursday, May 15, 2014
purity and making the most of your life
About a week ago I came across a picture of a letter that had been posted in a school some where here in the U.S.A. and here is what it read.......
I don't think my shoulder, bra strap, belly-button, legs, or back are going to distract any male students or faculty. this dress code is telling girls to cover up so that they don't distract males because "boys will be boys." It's hot. Girls are going to wear shorts and tank tops. we should stop teaching women to change so they don't have to fear men, and start teaching men to respect women. this is simply perpetuating rape culture.
I hope to help shed a little light on to this issue and how to better understand why wearing cloths that show too much skin is not respecting others and more importantly yourself.

Now there are two points of views on this story I want to talk about. First, the character who asks for the chocolate. That character represents Men and the chocolate is representative of two things: one, a women showing too much skin, and second our purity. you see some people may say that "boys will be boys" and in essence that is true. That is how God has made them.
I want to talk to the guys real quick. This is not an excuse to not always be working on your self control. If you make a mistake don't just say, "well it's just the why I was made." You were not made to make mistakes and you were not made to sin. Learn day by day how you are to treat women from a biblical perspective and strive with everything you have to be the man that God has called you to be. And if you do make a mistake one day, repent and turn to God for forgiveness.
Now the second view is that of the girl with the chocolate. She has this amazing gift (purity) that she has received from her father(God). She is very excited about this gift and wants all her friends to know, but in doing so she shows this boy her candy bar, and gets upset when he looks at it, not knowing what is going on in his mind. After being asked for a piece, she stands strong and says no, but this causes her to think about sharing it early (she was saving it for a friend at lunch(her marriage day)). Now alone and faced with the decision on whether or not to share it, the girl gives a small peace away (a kiss, a hug). After a while she gives more and more away until all of it is gone.
The thing is, if you have given away your candy bar in your life, God is in the business of restoring candy bars for those who repent and turn to him.
As Christians, we should want to make the most of the life we have here on earth to glorify God and bring people to him. So how do we do this? We must show the fruits of the spirit in our life.
Love-Romans 5:5 "and hope does not put us to shame, because God's love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us."
We need to not only love ourselves, (which we tend to do naturally) but also love others. Like it says in John 13:35 "By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”
Let's show a love that will make people stop and think about what makes us so different and want what we have.
Joy- let the Joy of Christ fill your life. Isaiah 12:6 "Shout, and sing for joy, O inhabitant of Zion, for great in your midst is the Holy One of Israel.” God will fill you with Joy. Romans 15:13 "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope." There is coming a day where no one will steal our Joy. John 16:22 "So also you have sorrow now, but I will see you again, and your hearts will rejoice, and no one will take your joy from you."
Romans 8:6 "For to set the mind on the flesh is death, but to set the mind on the Spirit is life and peace." There are so many things in this world that can steal away our peace. Let's focus our minds on Christ and remember these two promises.
Isaiah 26:3 "You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you."
Philippians 4:7 "And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."
We even have a kindness week, but do we really know what it means to be kind? Job 6:14“He who withholds kindness from a friend forsakes the fear of the Almighty." Let's remember that it is God who has made us, and he likes all things good. Proverbs 21:21 "Whoever pursues righteousness and kindness will find life, righteousness, and honor."
Goodness is pretty self explanatory. Be good and don't do what is wrong. God has so much Goodness stored up for us that fear him. And this is not a cowardly fear, this is a respectful fear. Psalm 31:19 "Oh, how abundant is your goodness, which you have stored up for those who fear you and worked for those who take refuge in you, in the sight of the children of mankind!"
Self-control seams to be a lost art in our world, but it is still just as necessary as it was 2,000 years ago. Proverbs 25:28 "A man without self-control is like a city broken into and left without walls." 2 Timothy 1:7 "for God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control."
"Patience is a virtue" I'm pretty sure everyone has heard that one. Proverbs 25:15 "With patience a ruler may be persuaded, and a soft tongue will break a bone." Luke 8:15 "As for that in the good soil, they are those who, hearing the word, hold it fast in an honest and good heart, and bear fruit with patience." 2 Corinthians 12:12 "The signs of a true apostle were performed among you with utmost patience, with signs and wonders and mighty works."
If we are not faithful in what we believe and say who will believe us? Let your yes be yes and your no be no. Psalm 36:5 "Your steadfast love, O Lord, extends to the heavens, your faithfulness to the clouds." Proverbs 3:3 "Let not steadfast love and faithfulness forsake you; bind them around your neck; write them on the tablet of your heart."
Colossians 3:12 "Put on then, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness,humility, meekness, and patience," some of us may view God as this big man sitting in heaven looking down ready at any moment to strike us down. This is terribly wrong. Yes, God is the ultimate Judge, but we also have to remember how Jesus came to Earth. He came as a baby. A tinny infant laying in the hay of a feeding trough. Humbling and gentle. Not only that, but he is also a comforter and called loving father. As God's children we too should also be gentle.
And in all this we have a father in heaven who loves and cares about us enough to wants to have a real personal love relationship with us. We can talk to him when ever we want to and we can talk to him about whatever we want to.
What will you talk to him about today?
1 Timothy 2:9-10 "likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire, but with what is proper for women who profess godliness—with good works."
Matthew 16:26 "For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul? Or what shall a man give in return for his soul?"
Friday, March 28, 2014
Introvert, Extrovert! Or Ambivert?
Most of us already know what an introvert and an extrovert
is but just in case for thoughs of you who don’t know.
Introvert: someone who gets there energy from spending time
alone. They are deep thinkers and enjoy reading a good book.
Extroverts: someone who gets there energy from other people.
Loves social outings and being in groups of people.
Now that we have that settled lets talk about this third one,
Ambivert. Ambivert is a mixture of both extrovert and introvert, they enjoy
being around other people and even need to, but also value time spent alone.
So which one of the 3 do you fall in to?
Contrary to common belief they are not really 3 categories
but more of a scale introvert being on one side, extrovert on the other side
and ambivert being in the middle.
Introvert-----------------------------------Me---------Ambivert--------------------------------------------Extrovert
For me personally I find myself to be an ambivert but
leaning to introvert. (see scale above)
Here are a list of characteristics of an extrovert
·
Assertive
·
Talkative
·
Easy to approach
·
Has many friends
·
Energized by being around people
·
Like to go to parties
·
Expressive
Here is a list of characteristics of an introvert
·
Private
·
Independent
·
Likes to be alone
·
Thinks before they speak
·
Quiet
·
Energized by alone time
·
Fewer but closer friends
You still may not know where you are on the scale but in the
end all that matters is if your being yourself. God made you exactly the way he
wants you to be and has a plain for your life. As long as you love God and you
are following him with all your heart it does not matter if your introvert
ambivert or extrovert you still have a purpose on this earth. And that is to
serve and love God and others.
Friday, March 21, 2014
Poverty in the Classroom
Teaching is one of the most important professions out there
due to the influence they have on raising up the next generation. It is the
responsibility of the teacher to not just teach, but to care for and nurture
each and every student in a creative learning environment. Each teacher has
their own unique teaching style, but it is important to keep the student
involved. As Benjamin Franklin once said, "Tell me and I forget. Teach me
and I remember. Involve me and I learn." In order for the student to truly
learn and understand, they must also feel involved and important.
As you may know there are some students that seem to be
unruly or completely uninterested in learning altogether. But instead of
getting upset or angry at them, we should first seek to understand why this
behavior occurs. As artist and educator Josef Albers once said, “Good teaching
is more a giving of right questions than a giving of right answers.” So why do
some students exhibit these sorts of behaviors? We believe it is an issue of
poverty.
Now the question should be what is poverty? Many believe it
is merely a lack of food, clothing, or money. But we argue it goes much deeper
than that. To explain what we mean by this we can look at an article written by
blogger Harinath Pudipeddi. Harinath argues that there are 7 basic types of
poverty. His groups and definitions for them are as follows:
1. “Economic Poverty - Lack of monitory
demands for providing themselves with Food, Cloth and Shelter. Please note that
money need for only the mentioned attributes falls under this category.”
2. “Bodily Poverty - Lack of property
physical health and access to health living conditions.”
3. “Mental Poverty - Lack of thinking,
which is resultant of lack of access to education and knowledge.”
4. “Cultural Poverty - Lack of coming
together in a society. No collaborative activities taking place which leads to
disconnect between people.”
5. “Spiritual Poverty - surprising
right? Yes, lack of feeling of togetherness/brotherhood plays an important role
in bringing people together.”
6. “Political Poverty - Lack of
understanding of how system works. The basic problem is the understanding of
how to cast one's vote and elect their leader. “
7. “Societal Poverty - Lack of social
connectivity”
So our next
big question is; what does poverty look like in your classroom? Poverty can be
manifested in many different ways:
·
Lack
of participation
·
Lack
of social interaction
·
Lack
of basic social skills
·
Anger
·
Constant
sleepiness
·
Irritability
·
Bad
hygiene
·
Bullying
issues
·
Constant
disobedience towards authority
With these
things in mind, we now need to know how to properly care for and teach these
students. Here are three main ways you can do this:
*Come to Understand
Their Situation*
Put yourself in their shoes. It may sound like a cliché, but
it is extremely important. The better you understand the situation the student
is in, the better equipped you will be in knowing how to teach them.
*Be Encouraging, Not
Critical*
Although
constructive criticism is good in some cases, remember that honey is sweeter
than vinegar. You can correct while still being kind, and for any kid that is a
really important factor in their development. Stay positive and patient.
*Be Consistent*
This is a key factor. If you aren’t
consistent in your own behavior and actions, people, especially students, won’t
know what your expectations are of them, and they will have issues in trusting
you. “Let your yes be simply yes, and your no be simply no” (Amplified Version,
Matt. 5.37).
*Be Involved*
Show interest in the students.
Communication is also very important here. Your responsibility to your students
doesn’t just stop inside the classroom. Be involved and communicate with the parents.
Doing this also helps in understanding your students further.
With all these things in mind you can
come to better understand the reality of poverty, and how it affects the
classroom setting. We hope this information is useful to you and are very
thankful to you as teachers for what you do. Thank you.
Works Cited
Pudipeddi, Harinath. "7 Types of
Poverty." : 7 Types of Poverty. N.p., 4 Aug. 2007. Web. 18 Mar. 2014.
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